Hello Dear Followers,
I recently grabbed the book, “Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl” by Sherry Argov off my bookshelf.
I thought I would write a little blog post about it, because the first 50 or so pages in, I was in serious fits of laughter, at my own embarrassing fuck ups with the male species.
Let me say for the record, I am not a bitch. Not in the least. I have allowed (key word here) men and people in general to walk all over me. Because I am what this book calls, “the nice girl.”
I answer texts as soon as they come in, I am readily available if people want to hang out, the word “no” isn’t always in my vocabulary.
I promise I am working on this!
When I began reading this, I thought, oh dear God, I have done this all wrong. What I thought I should do when it comes to the opposite sex, is exactly what I shouldn’t have done at all.
The author so far does a very good job at comparing and contrasting “the bitch” from the “nice girl” it provides various “Attraction Principles” for us girls to follow.
Examples: When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.
A man knows which woman will give in to last-minute requests.
Also the author isn’t describing the bitch everyone hates, it’s the one that is kind yet strong. She has a strength that is subtle.
To play the blame game on yourself and say, you did this all wrong (like I did as I was reading this book) is simply not right. You have to remember you are who you are. And the right person, whoever he is will love you for it.
It made me think of the movie, “He’s Just Not That Into You” (based on another funny book by the same name) … one of the lead characters constantly puts herself in these embarrassing positions with men, chasing them and calling them, reading into things that aren’t actually there… and so on. When the last guy rejects her in the movie, she makes a good point about how she may make a fool of herself in the ways that she does, but at least she is one step closer to finding love. I gave her a big cheer when I saw this scene.
I just thought I would give this a quick recommendation to all of you girls out there looking for a few pointers and some seriously good laughs.
Until next time..